Our generation is Commitment-Phobic

You have learned to live with half-baked ideas, people and relationships but when someone comes along promising a full-fledged commitment - all hands on deck, all cards on the table - you panic.

And yet, you talk about finding love and a relationship that's built to last. But, how do you expect to find something everlasting when you don’t want commitment. We will soon enter an era when relationships-commitment, everlasting marriages and promises—become a thing of the past; a myth.

We swipe left in hopes of finding the right person. We try to order our soulmate like a request on swiggy.

We want the happily ever after, but we don’t want to put the effort in the here and now. We want a deep connection while keeping things shallow.

We are just so scared of having relationships – we want friends with benefits, Netflix and chill, nudes on Tinder. We want anything that will give us the impression of a relationship, without being in an actual relationship. We want to commit - a little, but not a lot. We don’t want to give a label to our relationship. We just want to hang out.

When things get too close to being real, we run. We hide. We leave.

We want to walk pretending that we don’t have emotions while wearing our heart on our sleeve, wanting to be needed by someone yet not wanting to need someone.

We are complicated or do I say we are only making it complicated.

We hide behind our busy schedules, our Goa trips, and weekend hangout, away from anything that may require us to be vulnerable.

We are a confused generation but we are a passionate one too. We don't walk away from responsibility so, get up and talk to your partner.

Stop complaining, and start living.

Listen to your heart and be sure of your feelings.

Don’t be afraid of commitments because in the end you also want that.

Don’t let it go.

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